Wicked Wednesday: In the Mood

The Hubby and I had a great time with each other last night.  I’m talking AMAZING sex.  I love when we are not rushed and have all the time in the world to just enjoy each other…  when we can get lost in each other.  I love when he tells me what to do, tells me when I can come and takes control of me.  He loves when I tell him how good he makes me feel, when I beg for what I need and when I talk dirty.

As cliché as it sounds, sex is more than just sex for us… it’s an experience – a connection on every level between us.  It’s something that I crave and need.  It’s something that I can never get enough of.  Even after all the time we’ve been together, sex never gets old for us.  It has never felt like a chore or a “wifely duty”.  I look forward to it every day.  And the saying it true… it does get better with time.

It’s hard to explain to others how swinging adds to this connection between us.  I am so turned on by watching The Hubby with another woman.  I love watching her go down on him knowing how much he loves it and to watch him work her over and fuck her is the ultimate for me!  He is just as turned on by watching me.  Even though we are having sex with another person, the closeness that we feel is still with each other.  The intimate connection is between us.  And afterwards, we talk and tell each other what we enjoyed and what turned us on.  Conversations of this nature always lead to more mind-blowing sex!  It’s a win-win.  🙂

All this talk about sex and swinging and think back to that night of amazing sex has me totally in the mood!  I’m sure The Hubby won’t mind that at all.


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  1. I totally get the swinging part. There is something incredibly sexy about watching your partner with another woman. When you mentioned another woman sucking him that literally made me twitch with the thought of it.


  2. You are fortunate indeed to have such a secure connection 🙂

    ~Kazi xxx

  3. Oh to have time to enjoy each other! It’s the best. Doesn’t happen much, but when it does, I know what you mean by the connection. To have it, is amazing.

  4. What a beautiful and honest post. Lovely to read.

  5. OOOOO there is a recent interest for my husband with a certain female friend. I have the hots for her hubby. They are not in the lifestyle but she is interested but like us wants her husband on board. The thought of my hubby being with her makes me soaking wet. She is very sheltered and openly vanilla. But my hubby can make her wet with a touch. He taps into her side that she has sheltered for many reasons. I just love it.

  6. I recognize the connection and that sex gets better with time. And I know Hubby loves to watch me with another man or another woman 😉

    Welcome to Wicked Wednesday and thanks for your very nice post!

    Rebel xox

  7. You have a wonderful, inspiring attitude when it comes to sex. We continually strive for sex that is not merely routine, not just sex but, as you put it, an experience. We wish that everybody viewed sex as a positive, affirming aspect of life, and weren’t compelled to feel such societally-induced shame over it.

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